⚖️ You’re Not Being Loving—You’re Being Used: Break the Cycle of Overgiving

💣 Overgiving Is a Trauma Response, Not a Fruit of the Spirit

You’re not giving because you love.
You’re giving because:

• You fear abandonment

• You crave validation

• You believe you must earn love

• You’re repeating a childhood wound

That’s not love. That’s a pattern.

“No man can serve two masters...” – Matthew 6:24 (KJV)
You’re either honoring yourself in God or enslaving yourself to others.

🔥 Signs You're Trapped in Overgiving

1. You constantly give but feel empty afterward

2. You’re scared to say no

3. You attract people who take and never pour back

4. You over-explain, over-apologize, over-function

5. You feel guilty for resting or receiving

Let me remind you:
Jesus didn’t die for you to be used by people.
He died to restore your divine worth.

🛠 How to Break the Overgiving Cycle

1. Heal Your Self-Concept

You’re not here to earn love.
You’re here to express love from a place of wholeness.

“We love him, because he first loved us.” – 1 John 4:19 (KJV)

Speak this:
I am safe to receive. I am not a savior. I am already worthy.

2. Set Spirit-Led Boundaries

Boundaries are not walls.
They are gates of wisdom.

“Keep thy heart with all diligence...” – Proverbs 4:23 (KJV)

• It’s okay to say “No.”

• It’s okay to disconnect from dishonor.

• It’s okay to be unavailable for chaos.

3. Let Go of Martyr Programming

God doesn’t need you exhausted to bless others.

“Come unto me, all ye that labour... and I will give you rest.” – Matthew 11:28 (KJV)

Say this: I serve from overflow, not depletion.

🎯 Ready to Heal Your Worth and Rewire Your Patterns?

Let me help you detox from emotional martyrdom and reset your identity.

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🧠 Keith’s Final Word

Your overgiving is not love.
It’s a survival tactic your spirit is tired of.

This season, stop bleeding for people who wouldn’t even offer you a bandage.

You were not called to be drained.
You were called to be divine.

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🖊 Written by Keith Muoki – Spiritual Coach, Millionaire Mentor & Relationship Strategist
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