🧠 “You're Too Much” Is Code for “I’m Not Enough”: Stop Shrinking to Fit Small Love

🧠 “You're Too Much” Is Code for “I’m Not Enough”: Stop Shrinking to Fit Small Love

🚩 “Too Much” Is Spiritual Projection

You weren’t asking for too much. You were simply asking for:

  • Clarity

  • Commitment

  • Communication

  • Consistency

And when someone can’t give that—they shame you for needing it.

👉 That’s not your fault. That’s their insecurity speaking.

“They measuring themselves by themselves… are not wise.” – 2 Corinthians 10:12 (KJV)


✨ You’re Not Too Much—You’re Finally Enough for Yourself

The reason they’re uncomfortable is because you finally:

  • Set boundaries

  • Spoke truth in love

  • Refused to beg for attention

  • Refused to settle for emotional games

That’s called growth. And growth is loud in rooms where people stayed small.


✅ What to Do When People Say “You’re Too Much”

1. Don’t Shrink—Shine

You’re not intense. You’re intentional.
Stop apologizing for being rooted in truth.

“Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hid.” – Matthew 5:14 (KJV)


2. Bless and Move On

Don’t try to convince them.
Don’t lower your voice to comfort people who can’t handle your calling.

“Come out from among them, and be ye separate...” – 2 Corinthians 6:17 (KJV)


3. Reaffirm Your Identity

Say this:
I am not too much. I am finally in alignment with my divine design.

“I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made...” – Psalm 139:14 (KJV)


🎯 Need Help Rebuilding Your Standards Without Guilt?

Let’s work together and reset your relationship identity:

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💬 Keith’s Final Word

You’re not too much. You’re too aware.
And people who benefit from your confusion will always feel threatened by your clarity.

Let them call it “too much”—
God calls it chosen.

🖊 Authored by Keith Muoki – Relationship Strategist, Christ-Centered Coach & Conscious Millionaire Mentor
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