Until You Heal It, You’ll Repeat It

1. The People You Attract Reflect the Pain You Haven’t Faced

You keep asking, “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of person?”
Here’s why: your inner program is stuck. You’re operating from wounds, not wisdom.

• If you fear abandonment, you attract emotionally unavailable partners.

• If you believe love must be earned, you attract people who make you prove yourself.

• If your inner child is unloved, you attract adults who neglect you.

This is not a relationship issue—it’s a self-concept issue.

Proverbs 4:23 (KJV) says, “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.”

2. Repeating the Pattern Doesn’t Make It Love

Just because it feels familiar doesn’t mean it’s safe.
Some of you confuse chemistry with trauma familiarity.
You don’t miss them—you miss the emotional chaos you mistook for passion.

Let me be blunt:
Love shouldn’t feel like survival.

You were created for alignment, not addiction.
You were called to covenant, not confusion.

3. Healing Isn’t a Trend. It’s a Strategy.

Healing is not affirmations and candle baths.
Healing is:

• Sitting with your emotional pain.

• Acknowledging where you self-abandoned.

• Forgiving what your parents never taught you.

• Reprogramming your self-concept with God’s Word.

• Choosing discipline over drama.

📖 “And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” – John 8:32 (KJV)

You don’t heal by running. You heal by remembering who you are in Christ.

4. You’re Not Attracting Trash—You’re Attracting a Teacher

Yes, it hurt. Yes, they disrespected you. Yes, it was wrong.

But it was also revelatory.

Every person who mishandled you held up a mirror. They showed you the parts of you that were still negotiating your worth.

Stop blaming them. Start studying what they revealed.

Final Word: Until You Heal It, You’ll Date It Again

Healing is not optional if you want love that lasts.
Break the cycle. Heal the source.
You don’t need closure. You need consciousness. You don’t need another “talk”—you need a transformation.

📖 “Be renewed in the spirit of your mind.” – Ephesians 4:23 (KJV)

The moment you heal, your frequency changes.
And the kind of love you attract?
Completely different.

Ready to Heal the Root, Not Just Manage the Symptoms?

If you’re tired of cycles, confusion, and one-sided relationships—it’s time for inner work. I’ll help you rewire your identity, heal the emotional patterns, and rebuild your love life from the spirit up.

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🛑 Stop calling it bad luck.
✅ Start calling it unhealed patterns.

— Keith Muoki
Millionaire Relationship Strategist | Christ-Centered Mentor | Biblical Metaphysicist
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