By Keith Muoki | Kingdom Relationship Coach & Mindset Strategist
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Let’s expose something real:
If your “type” keeps leading you into pain, confusion, inconsistency, emotional rollercoasters, and spiritual chaos…
That’s not a type. That’s a trauma pattern.
You’re not choosing them because they’re good for you.
You’re choosing them because they feel familiar to your wounds.
“As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he…” — Proverbs 23:7 (KJV)
Unhealed trauma programs your soul to crave people who mirror your unresolved emotions.
That’s why you keep calling dysfunction chemistry.
That’s why peace feels boring and pain feels passionate.
It’s not love—it’s unhealed energy recycling itself.
🚨 Trauma Attracts Familiarity, Not Fulfillment
💔 If you’ve always had to prove your worth, you’ll chase emotionally unavailable people.
💔 If you had to earn love growing up, you’ll find yourself addicted to performing in relationships.
💔 If abandonment shaped your story, you’ll attract people who ghost, pull away, or keep you on edge.
But hear this clearly:
It’s not your fault—but it is your responsibility.
You can’t heal what you keep calling your type.
📘 Ready to Rewire Your Relationship Patterns?
Here are Spirit-led, soul-reviving resources to help you shift:
✅ After Breakup – Detox from soul ties, emotional loops, and post-relationship confusion.
✅ Broken Heart Survival Guide – Turn pain into power, and heartbreak into healing.
✅ Irresistible You – Discover your divine identity, attraction energy, and spiritual self-worth.
✅ Defeating Divorce – For married couples battling silent breakdowns and spiritual distance.
🔗 View more: Relationship Recovery Collection
🧠 5 Keys to Break the Trauma Type Cycle
- Expose the Pattern – Look at your past choices without shame but with spiritual eyes.
- Get Honest About Your Wounds – Where did this attraction style begin?
- Break Soul Ties Spiritually & Emotionally – Unhook yourself through truth, prayer, and action.
- Define What God’s Love Feels Like – Peace, stability, clarity—not chaos, tension, or confusion.
- Rewire What You Crave – Learn to desire what’s healthy, holy, and Kingdom-aligned.
💬 Ready to Heal with My Help?
Let’s break your patterns and build a foundation for emotionally healthy, spiritually aligned love:
💡 30-Min Clarity Coaching – $15 / KES 2,000
🧠 1-Hour Pattern Reset – $30 / KES 4,000
💎 2-Hour Soul Healing & Strategy – $60 / KES 8,000
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🌐 Website: https://keithmuoki.com
💎 Final Word:
You don’t need another “situationship.”
You don’t need another trauma loop labeled “chemistry.”
You need truth, healing, and divine alignment.
“And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” — John 8:32 (KJV)
Your next level of love begins with your next level of self-honesty and healing.
Stop blaming yourself for who you picked.
Start becoming someone who only aligns with what’s sent, not what’s familiar.
– Keith Muoki
Kingdom Relationship Coach | Trauma Breakthrough Mentor | Purpose Alignment Strategist
